Nickolas and Ami
When we sat down to right this letter we didnít know how to start it, literally. After much thought and discussion we decided on the expectant mother. We decided on this because she is the most important person, and that's you. During our research we found a quote that made it all make sense. ďMy definition of mother is someone who loves unconditionally and places the needs of her children above her own, on a personal level, and not only with words, but also actions.Ē Random online commenter.
Describe your childhood (adoptive mom & adoptive dad):
I was raised in a loving home with two older sisters. We didnít always get along (what three teenage girls do?), but we always supported each other when it really meant something. My mother had a full time job so my father was the main parental figure. However, my mother was the one that come to most of my school functions. I was in several after school sports and activities and really enjoyed school. My parents were very key in continuing my education in college. My childhood was a very pleasant time in my life.
I am the oldest of four boys. My father was the sole financial provider for our family and my mother was a homemaker. They were always there to support me in whatever I wanted to do. I enjoyed doing a lot of outdoor activities with my brothers like making forts, jumping on the trampoline, going fishing, and riding my bike. My childhood was a very happy time in my life.
Tell us about your home?
When you have a 3-day weekend, what do you like to do?
Do you have pets? If so tell us about them?
What do you hope to teach your children?
Describe your neighborhood?
What will you tell your child about his/her birthmother?
It's Daddy's day - what activity do you want to share with your child?
What kind of education are you hoping to provide for your child - Private or Public?
How did you come to the decision of adoption?
What faith will you raise your child?
What kind of a relationship do you hope to build with your birthmom through her pregnancy?
How did you meet?
What was your relationship with your parents like (adoptive mom & adoptive dad)?
My relationship with my parents was unique. They were always there for me and supported me when I needed them. They were not really affectionate parents, but I always knew that they loved me even if they didnít say it. As the youngest child I was able to learn from a lot of my older sisters' mistakes so there was never really any arguments between my parents and myself.
Both of my parents were extremely supportive of me. They didnít have a lot of money, but they always found a way to give me the things I really needed and wanted. I really respect them for how loving they were with each other and how they raised me. My mother was the affectionate parent and my father helped guide me with any questions I had in life.
What attracted you to each other?
Please describe your personalities (adoptive mom & adoptive dad):
I am a smiley, light hearted person. I enjoy helping others, especially at work. I'm almost always happy and really enjoy laughing with my husband and friends.
My personality is happy go lucky. I consider myself a friendly, helpful person who is quiet and not outspoken. I am humorous and light hearted.
What are your hobbies (please share those you enjoy as individuals and those you enjoy as a couple):
I enjoy reading, doing crafts, rummage sales, and finding projects to work on. The hobbies I enjoy doing with my family are riding our bikes, playing in the back yard, bowling, fishing, watching the Packer games together, and sitting down to dinner.
I personally enjoy snowboarding, golfing, and tennis. The hobbies I enjoy with my family are fishing, riding our bikes, camping, wagon rides, and going to the zoo.
When you close your eyes and see yourself holding your precious baby in your arms what are your thoughts regarding the birthmother?
How will a child enrich your life?
Why did you each choose the career path you decided on?
I have always been interested in science. I have also always wanted to help people but was nervous about a lot of new interactions with people I didnít know. Being a Medical Laboratory Scientist I get to work in a lab. I get to help people without having to have as many interactions directly with the patient, and I get to stay near my family.
I chose my career path primarily as a means to support my wife and family. It allows me to be home with my son and wife as well as provide for them. Several of my family members work there as well and I really enjoy getting to see them on a day to day basis.
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